Saturday, July 18, 2009

Overcoming Misery

"My brethren, do not hold your faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ with an attitude of personal favoritism. For if a man comes into your assembly with a gold ring and dressed in fine clothes, and there also comes in a poor man in dirty clothes, and you pay special attention to the one who is wearing the fine clothes, and say, "You sit here in a good place," and you say to the poor man, "You stand over there, or sit down by my footstool," have you not made distinctions among yourselves, and become judges with evil motives? Listen, my beloved brethren: did not God choose the poor of this world to be rich in faith and heirs of the kingdom which He promised to those who love Him?"—James 2:1–5 (NASB)

Overcoming Misery

I'm the most miserable when I think about—

  • what I don't have
  • what I can't afford
  • what others have that I want
  • what others who don't respect me think about me.

These thoughts range from wanting a husband to wishing for a better paying job to desiring a spacious, beautiful home. Because if I had these things then the disrespecters might treat me as if I have value. I find their negative stereotypes of single-parent families especially irksome.

My anguish serves as a microscope to myself and a telescope to God. When I look close up at myself, I see self doubt. When I search for God, I'm liberated from my attachment to fine things and others' biases. I refocus on putting my ultimate trust in God alone. I prefer to observe myself through God's eyes.


Set free.

Rich in faith.

Heir of his kingdom.

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

A Time to Laugh: The 84-year-old Bride

A Time to
Laugh: The 84-year-old Bride

Did you know that laughter relaxes your body, increases your immune system, releases endorphins, and safeguards your sanity. And what single mother doesn't struggle with the insanity of the mother load of responsibilities. So what can we younger gals learn from an 84-four-year-old bride?

There's Always Hope

When a 84-year-old bride married for the fourth time, an interviewer asked her questions about her life, her husbands and their occupations.

She smiled and said, "I married a banker in my 20s, a circus ringmaster in my 40s and a preacher in my 60s.

"What's your current husband's occupation?" The interviewer asked.

"A funeral director."

"Why did you marry men with such diverse occupations?"

"Easy, son. I married one for the money, two for the show, three to get ready, and four to go."